Attitudes can change Your Life!

dear diary, You know it seems the word "attitude"is used alot of the time in a negetive manner.I don't know when this started,but I have heard terms like ;loose that attitude,or he always has an attitude,and here's a good one ;"loose the tude"so in other words it's as if there is only one attitude a person can have.One of anger,defensive,sullen,poor me, and other negetive emotions.When I was in my quiet place ,were God and Jesus give me insights ,show me truths about myself,and remind me of what I have learned about the order of faith.I pray to have a loving attitude almost everyday.I wonder how many people think about their attitude in daily situations,interactions with others.Do other people wake up in the morning aware of their attitude?,i'm thinking you know we can change an attitude.A person can even reflect on what their attitude was in a situation and say i will be aware of my attitude next time,i will begin by monitoring my attitudes.I can change an angry attitude ,I recognize that has been my attitude most of the time .Why am I so angry most of the time ?is there something I have been angry about for such a long time that I have forgotten .Is there anything I can do to change the past ?A person could say ,I have held on to this anger too long,I'm ready to let it go.A woman who is working to make changes in herself;she said she had always had an attitude of dread when she thought about visiting her mother in a nursing home.The woman realized how self centered this was.She knew her mother wanted to see the woman and she wanted to see her mother.This insight became personal growth for the woman,she realized how things had always been about herself.But no more,because she realized how this had limited her life.I say ,attitudes;loving,compassion,open mindedness,joy,gratefulness.What's your's?